So Right.

Well, the most confusing aspects of life; "What is Love?" What sort of sacrifice should we go through to gain it?


Some say that having a relationship with the opposite sex is like a battle. In fact, it is a never-ending battle. Men will never understand women. Women will never understand men.


Truthfully, both sides is wired differently. Differ in priority, men and women use different ways of coping stress, solving problems, having a conversation, and choices wise.

Men usually have an instinct that says before you can take care of anybody else; you must take care of yourself first. They don't just blurt out their own problems to anybody else, except when there're in a dire need in getting it. Men generally don't realize how extremely and quickly they may shift from being warm and romantic; to being unresponsive and distant. They also forget that their partners may be having problems too. Ego-driven, they seek and explore how to solve the problem in a discreet way. He reasons that her feelings are invalid because he is solving problems to benefit her. When a woman sees a man react this way, she generally resist it and resent the man. She is bothered and then take it personally by feeling unimportant.

Women instinctively feels a need to talk about her feelings and all the possible problems that are associated with her feelings. When she begins talking she does not prioritize the significance of any problem. If she is upset, then she is upset ABOUT IT ALL, big and small. She is not immediately concerned with finding solutions to her problems but rather seeks relief by expressing herself and being understood. By randomly talking about her problems, she becomes less upset.

Men are just want to relax and unwind by quietly reading the news. He is stressed by the unsolved problems of his day and finds relief through forgetting them. The woman wants to find relief by talking about the problems of her day.

The tension slowly building between them gradually becomes resentment.

He secretly thinks she talks too much, while she feels ignored.

Without understanding their differences they will grow further apart.

Well, that the basis of it. There's still more to come.


P/S: An excerpt from Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. Trying to improve myself in becoming more understanding in "What is goin' on here..." and being a FIRST-TIMER, this is totally new to me. Heh.